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Grown-up kids can't move out



South West parents feel the strain as grown-up kids remain living at home

6 September 2013

The lack of affordable housing in the South West is increasing the financial and emotional burden on parents as their grown-up children can no longer afford to move out, new research has revealed.

A ComRes poll of parents with adult children aged 21 to 40-years-old, conducted on behalf of the National Housing Federation, found that across the South West:

  • Nine out of ten (87%) parents in the South West with grown-up children believe there is not enough housing in Britain that people can afford.
  • Almost a quarter of parents of adult children in the South West (24%) have at least one adult child living at home.

Unless more homes are built, the situation soon could become even bleaker for parents with children in their twenties and thirties. Across the South West first-time buyer house prices are set to increase by 48% by 2020, and rents in 2020 will be 47% higher that they are today. That means parents could be forced to look after their grown-up children for even longer as they struggle to save up enough money to get a place of their own.

This is increasing pressure on family life. While many South West parents say having an adult child at home has brought them closer together or brought them a lot of happiness, others were not so positive. Several respondents say having a grown-up child at home has caused them stress or caused family arguments. Worryingly, some say it has caused them to fall into debt.

Nationally, parents in higher income brackets are more likely to have at least one grown-up child living at home. More than a third (36%) of parents with grown-up children with a household income of more than £30,000 have at least one of their adult children living at home, compared to a fifth (21%) of parents with adult children with a total household income of £30,000 or less.

Sarah Carr, South West lead manager for the National Housing Federation, said:

“Empty nest syndrome is becoming a thing of the past. Rather than waving their children off as they grow up and move out, parents are stuck with kids in their thirties still living at home.

“Moving out and setting up a family home of your own is a normal rite of passage. Yet as rents, mortgages and deposits continue to soar out of reach, it is no longer an option for many. We’re delaying adulthood for grown-ups kids who are left stuck in their childhood bedrooms. As a result parents are also trapped, unable to move on with their lives and benefit from the freedom which comes when their sons and daughters move out.

“As a country we need to build more homes at the right prices in the right areas now to ensure there is another option. We must encourage more development of new homes and the decisions about where more homes are built are being made locally, by local councillors. They will act if local people say they want more homes in their local communities. Unless local communities speak out in favour of more homes, mums and dads across the country will be stuck providing a roof for their adult children.”

Curo is backing the National Housing Federation’s Yes to Homes campaign which is calling on local people that want more affordable homes in their communities to contact their local councillors and support more housing.


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